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Do you recognise yourself
in any of these abusive behaviours?

domestic violence perpetrators

“Sometimes when we argue I shout at her. She is scared of me.”


Joseph’s domestic abuse is costing him his children, see why here.

support for domestic violence perpetrators
help for domestic violence perpetrators

“I promised that I would never slap her again. But I did…”


Adam is learning to manage anger non-violently, find out how here.

I felt that I had somewhere to go and I wasn’t alone. I have more choices now than I did before I called. I had someone who didn’t judge but told me directly that what I had done wasn’t right and made me face it. I appreciated having a safe space to tell someone what was happening.
support for domestic abuse perpetrators

Is your abusive behaviour costing you your relationship?

Help is available.

Get in touch with the Respect Phoneline

You can talk to us in confidence about your violence and domestic abuse. A friendly Helpline Advisor will listen to you without judgement and give you honest advice.

0808 8024040

Telephone support
Mon–Fri 9am-8pm

free from landlines and mobile phones within the UK. Your call will not appear on itemised bills. You can also call free from BT pay phones.

Email support
Mon-Fri 9am-8pm,
Sat and Sun 10am-12pm
and 4pm-6pm

Webchat support
Wednesday, Thursday and Friday
10–11am and 3–4pm.

Call 0808 8024040
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